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Greetings:

Julie and I wish you Glorious Holidays! My dear associate is an angel sent from the LORD. Truly she told me God told her to come to me. I am most grateful to how she listens and responds to his guidance. I hope you are blessed with such a sister and friend.

Christmas is around the corner! My favorite time. I am sure you will be shocked, I have my Christmas Tree up! Yes i am one of those that put up my joyous tree, filled with hand painted tiger and wonderful wild animals. I put it up early and take it down later towards after February- my birthday. After what I have traversed in life, I experience every day or I should say moment, opening my glorious Christmas gifts of life. Snow is already blanketing us with crystal flakes of shimmering iridescent hues, when the moonlight smiles upon it.

I dedicate this blog to joy and aliveness, with Andre Bocelli singing magnificently White Christmas, in the background. I learned after letting go, I do not control anything. I find this is far beyond my mind constantly thinking I need to be grateful, instead I am attentive to every detail that organizes on behalf of me and I am rejoicing. In this world I am continuously trained. I listen and respond as a child. What do you see that gives you joy?

Should you live in cluttered spaces, your things will interrupt your peace and flow. It is difficult to experience a glorious silence that reveals to you..."you are home" --when you have lots of stuff. Healing and trust go hand in hand with releasing clutter, and resolving core issues that are behind it in the first place. What can you release that will free up your space that allows you to feel a cozy, warm, inviting home for you and your family?

Look into the mouth of fear and you will see how you have been believing in a false identity. You have only to look inside to find out whether they are yours. I have a holiday gift for you that is rather odd. Whenever you have any fears, do not harbor them, just write them down into a special, colorful notebook. You will find in a short time they will disappear. It is truly amazing.

May you be Gloriously blessed this Season. May you be touched by loving people and find wondrous avenues to give. There are so many that have difficult times over the Holidays and your love and service makes such a difference.

Warmest Holiday Wishes,

Donna

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"Magic of Every Day Living"

 

"Might As Well Laugh About It Now"

Dear Friends:

I am reading Marie Osmond "Might As Well Laugh About It Now". So hilarious. She takes her challenges and adds wit and spice to it and viola- delightful mirth.

In 2005 she was prompted several times, as much she was not wanting too, to take her precocious babe with her. A wee one in addition to her 8 year old when she was giving a special talk to young women.

Just before the show, she was to learn that part of her beautiful home had burned. She learned the children had been rescued and her husband, at the time. Her office was burned and reduced to cinders. Her journals destroyed and other memorabilia. She decided to keep her agreement since everyone was safe. Think about her commitment it took. Upon return home and viewing all the damage, she was surprised that underneath it all, that she felt a strange relief.

When she told the truth, she realized she could not even read the chicken scratch from late night journaling and neither could anyone else. She also knew she did not need all the memorabilia she had hung onto. She discovered she could have the memories without storing the stuff.

How many of you is this true for? I have coached thousands only to discover that the generational patterns behind keeping their stuff, was the culprit. The stuff you keep most often insulates pain. Or the other way, when you are so busy, you ignore what is in front of you, it is still pain. No time for you.. to have your beautiful, balanced nurturing space.

The physical never lies. You just may tend to ignore it or deny it. Free up your home you free up your life when you befriend it and choose to stay conscious in your life.

When Marie was forced into close quarters with her family and husband while her home was being rebuilt, she discovered things she had not faced in her marriage.

Yes there is a physical-spiritual life that here to teach us. We have only to get in touch. That is why I designed the Glory of Home Webinars as America's people have a Collective Consciousness that is eroding your homes and communities and is disheartening for your families without realizing it.

Warmest Blessings,

Donna

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Abundance Verses Accumulation

Aquarium Story

Dear Friends:

 

Happy 4th of July! Today is "Independence Day". What an extraordinary and novel idea. Our Founding Father's had a great plan. You truly make a difference with America and the countries you are in. Are you ready to be freed from clutter in your life, whether emotional or physical? This release has a direct effect upon issues occurring in your world.

Your "Powerspace" is available as you connect with having a profound relationship with your home and life. I lead the Glory of Home webinars and I am receiving the most amazing stories of the miracles that are happening with your sisters worldwide. I will be sharing thos stories each week in our Radiant Design Newsletter. Sign up below and listen to your Story Tellers.

Your Radiant Design World awaits you. It exists within Cascading Flow within color, vibrancy and glorious movement! Imagine remaining beautifully centered and opinions and attitudes of others does not affect you. That who you are, evokes a community lit up in the same way. Stay tuned.

Bless You in Love and Lightening-up

Donna Bell-- ps I am happy to announce I am now a worldwide internet Show Host of Glory of Home on thewinonline.com (Women's Information Network).Just click Show Host Donna Bell.

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Closet Prophetess

As Carry “Tells the Truth” about the condition of her hat, it is painful. She can see that the way she is defending her hat is the way she is defending her husband. Her hat is in shambles and so is her marriage.

Her addiction is connected to him and his addictions. She has become a part of his system. Once she separates herself from him, she has time to see clearly and examine the patterns she has been continually acting out with him.  Her closet is one place in her home where physical objects show her what her behaviors have been.

The minute she recognizes that what she is trying to fix in him, is what she is meant to repair in herself, she becomes free of this destructive dependency. She discovers the wellness she thinks is his potential is actually her own wellness, and she can now love others in a balanced way.

She now knows that each individual has the responsibility and opportunity to help themselves. Each person now has “choice” in their own life. The addiction pattern is shifted when one person changes. In this state of well-being the dependent, unhealthy systems disappear.

When Carry shifted her social system from the rescuing addiction pattern to her true pattern of “Self-identity”, she opened the way for choice. She now decides her outcomes. The choices she makes daily will set up protective boundaries that will prevent future addictions.

Carry’s storyhas a happy ending. In being true to herself she ended up having a new relationship with her husband and family. A little self-care goes a long way. Carrie has chosen not to hide behind the doors of her bedroom and closet anymore. She takes each day; one day at a time. She is being honest in her own truth and not rescuing her husband and being most compassionate and centered as she addresses the issues in her family. She is not afraid to seek professional help, now that she sees that she is part of the solution.

Facing conditions in our environment can be a freeing up experience for yourself and others. Next week I will share the type of results that occur when one does detail cleaning and design. Let me know what you have seen in your life as you clean up your environment....

I look forward to responding to your insightful questions! Email your questions to me on my web site  RadiantDesignLiving.com. 

I am happy to announce I have a new e-book coming out by November 15th, 2006 that you may buy, called "Telling the Truth in your Closet". It is step by step approach to the proprietary work that has been designed that allows you to get underneath what may be in the way of  your flow and glorious abundance!

Closet Prophetess

I begin with the question I left with you previously.

“What does it mean when...my closet shelf is filled with hats I never wear—stacked on my shelf and spilling over?"

Upon first glance. there is the disorder and maybe a lack of discipline..... I approach the condition and look detailed at this closet area. It looks like the person does not have time to address this issue. Interesting enough it is where she sees it every morning when she gets dressed. Think for a moment, this is what greets her before she even leaves her bedroom!

The physical condition when one pays attention will always signal what is going on in ones' life. One just needs to know how to look. A good question to ask is "How long has this display been greeting me every day?" Perhaps you have gotten so used to it being there, it does not matter or one may not even notice it anymore.

I would like to suggest that it does matter, literally everything is matter (energy) in this world. In the hectic pace we live, we forget to honor the sacred. Every detail matters and is the opportunity to truly expericence being present in this world, when there is so much unconsciousousness around us, physically and emotionally.

At this juncture, I suggest that you look at other physical areas of your life in which it is obvious that "you don't have time to think about it or do anything with it or care about it." One area that you do notice is the opportunity to see where else you compromise in your physical environment and where you ignore your emotions. Everything we are not awake to in our lives, has an unseen cost.

Suppose you decide to make the hats into a great display that inspires you--yet underneath, you do not even like hats. They in your world are for coverup, hiding and actually a reminder of someone who appeared so professional when around people and in secret they would abuse you emotionally.

Instead of organizing the hats, which is settling for or trying to convince yourself they are fine where they are, you tell the truth. The hats trigger this buried emotion. In the past, all the chaos of this display was a way to ignore what it really signified.

Do you hang onto clothes your "mum" gave you that you do not wear or care for and keep, as you do not desire to offend her. One problem she has been dead for ten years. True story...

We build shrines to incompletions with our physical objects. Incompletion occurs when we ignore what it takes to put something into display or order, instead we take it and dump it somewhere. The more order the easier it is to see what does not belong; whether it be the object or the concealed emotion.

The term "filled" often means one is not connected to the object. It is ok, I just keep adding to it. If necessary I will find another shelf. "Filled" often denotes of the the person "I'm not enough". I just keep filling up the void. Where in other areas of your physical life or environment are you not able to let an empty space be an empty space. The need to fill empty space rather than wait upon it to fill itself, may be the opportunity to see where one has the need to control everything.

This shelf condition suggests that the individual does not take time for detail in her life.  She may have an ego that always drives her in the more important things, not the mundane in her home. I would like to suggest that the way that she lets things lapse in your home is the way you let things lapse in your business and relationships.

Interesting, one thing I coach about relationship--be sure to see his/her home condition. What is in front of you is exactly what is in front of you. When we really see the condition one lives in; one can see where a person lives from in respect for oneself. It is easy to see when you tell the truth about chaos where one might need to say "no" so that order and beauty is restored.

It is hard to make up all the potential that we see in the person, when we are faced with them not having any desire to clean or have beauty in their home  except when you are there. WARNING.... Do not give into flattery of what you bring,  when you are required to keep bringing it, rather than awaken it in them. Physical conditons do not lie.

Go in, with "eyes wide open." I suggest that an individual be in touch and in love with the dignity of oneself which is easily seen within the physical environment. As this balance occurs I have seen the most wonderful partners show up for individuals. Being in touch with your inner and outer true self allows for the magnetic influence of relationship. There really is nothing to do. Just "Tell the Truth in the Closet", it will leave nothing out.

Each thing we ignore is preceded by an underlying behavior in some way:

                                 

I have more important things to do than tend my shelf--things are spilling over

No one sees it-- it is well hidden, cannot be seen anyway..who cares

Someday I may get to it-- stacks of hats on top of each other

Guilt-- always reminding me I need to do something

Pain-- I got one on sale so I need to justify to keep

Anxiety--I impulsively paid more than I have ever paid for a hat ( I am always reminded I must wear it and I have not). It's too beautiful for me...I will save it only for good.

Guilt-- Why did I spend the money?  Why do I need twelve hats?

How old is what I am keeping--this question keeps one accountable.

Looking closely at the physical condition allows one to see where you are compromising and going unconscious about the small things. As one begins this kind of "Telling the Truth" a new world begins to emerge.

What I appreciate about this pathway of uncovering is that it is not threatening and personal. It is responding to the physical condition that  is in front of you and giving you different window to see issues and emotions that are occurring in your life.

Now, take a look at what might be in front of you and submit questions to me. We can have fun while even facing difficult issues. This is your blog.......

My question next week:

What does it mean when my husband keeps a bowling ball in my closet?

and more on stacked hats should I not get any questions from you....... I can stay in this closet reading for quite some time-- please be brave and ask your question-it will serve the sisters of the world as they interact with the answer.

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